Are you feel­ing a bit con­fused? Well, if
you are not then there is prob­a­bly some­body else in your world that is! So, either
way, you best pay atten­tion to the sub­tleties today because the Uni­verse is
speak­ing in tongues and you may find that those lit­tle mis­cues are creating
big­ger and big­ger snafus…for you and every­one else.

The best advice is to pause, take a step
back and remem­ber that you need to make sure that what you con­veyed was received
as you intend­ed. Make your best case, but then have the oth­er par­ty con­firm by
repeat­ing back what they heard…and then make sure that they get the same
ben­e­fit by you doing the same for them…What you will prob­a­bly find is that
you each prob­a­bly came to this mis­un­der­stand­ing through hold­ing differing
assump­tions or points of view that cloud­ed your communications.

Part this fog of doubts, misunderstandings
and hurt feel­ings by tak­ing the time to remove those self-cast shad­ows, by
show­ing a lit­tle more consideration…by remem­ber­ing that the most important
part of com­mu­ni­cat­ing is through lis­ten­ing with your heart and not just your head!