This is Seri\u00adous! \u2026No, seri\u00adous\u00adly, we are talk\u00ading about Sat\u00adurn, the \u201cRing Pass Not\u201d plan\u00adet of Real\u00adi\u00adty. You are fac\u00ading a Reck\u00adon\u00ading and a Rev\u00ade\u00adla\u00adtion about your Val\u00adues and Rela\u00adtion\u00adships (Venus). But, of course, you are real\u00adly fac\u00ading a reckoning\/revelation about your rela\u00adtion\u00adship to your \u201cself\u201d.<\/p>\n
With an oppo\u00adsi\u00adtion (like a Full Moon), it seems as if \u201cthe prob\u00adlem\u201d is out there, which is par\u00adtial\u00adly true, of course. Any of your rela\u00adtion\u00adships which have been under\u00adgo\u00ading chal\u00adlenges will now reach a cli\u00admax; the rela\u00adtion\u00adship will face a reck\u00adon\u00ading. You\u2019ve reached a turn\u00ading point, and this can, and prob\u00ada\u00adbly should, be painful. There is a sense of final\u00adi\u00adty; \u201cwe\u201d may not make it.<\/p>\n
The \u201cissue\u201d is the bal\u00adance, (for both of you), between your\u00adself and the oth\u00ader. Venus is in Aries, asserts the prin\u00adci\u00adple of \u201cme, myself and I\u201d. Sat\u00adurn is in Libra, reminds Venus that \u201cI\u201d with\u00adout \u201cThou\u201d is mean\u00ading\u00adless. Bal\u00adance is achieved when you cre\u00adate a dynam\u00adic equi\u00adlib\u00adri\u00adum between rea\u00adson\u00adable self-asser\u00adtion cou\u00adpled with lov\u00ading con\u00adsid\u00ader\u00ada\u00adtion for the oth\u00ader. The prob\u00adlem here is that either the rela\u00adtion\u00adship is being dam\u00adaged by too much indi\u00advid\u00adu\u00adal\u00adism, or indi\u00advid\u00adu\u00adal\u00adi\u00adty is being smoth\u00adered by a too demand\u00ading relationship\/partner. The sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion has become untenable.<\/p>\n
Either way, you need to take respon\u00adsi\u00adbil\u00adi\u00adty for your part in this, which of course is (at least) half of it! You get and cre\u00adate the rela\u00adtion\u00adship you are wor\u00adthy of, and that depends upon your pri\u00adma\u00adry rela\u00adtion\u00adship, your rela\u00adtion\u00adship to your \u201cself\u201d. You can\u00adnot, nor should you, seek to change the oth\u00ader. You can re-exam\u00adine and you should devel\u00adop your\u00adself; and, you will by those actions change the nature of your rela\u00adtion\u00adship to the oth\u00ader. And yes, that means your part\u00adner will have the oppor\u00adtu\u00adni\u00adty to move into this new space and change as well.<\/p>\n
But your con\u00adcern must be with your val\u00adues, your needs and the pat\u00adterns of rela\u00adtion\u00adship that you have cre\u00adat\u00aded. The question\/revelation is about your val\u00adues; the ques\u00adtion seems exter\u00adnal but it is tru\u00adly inter\u00adnal. The issue and les\u00adson is about your self-worth.\u2026it is about self-acceptance\u2026it is about your love of self\u2026which then is reflect\u00aded into your rela\u00adtion\u00adship and your love for the other.<\/p>\n
You can\u00adnot turn away from this moment, this pain that seems to come from out\u00adside. Instead move into that pain, look with\u00adin and exam\u00adine your\u00adself, your val\u00adues, and your love of self and by so doing you will strength\u00aden your self-accep\u00adtance. Then go to your part\u00adner or to your friend and calm\u00adly, lov\u00ading\u00adly and care\u00adful\u00adly explain what you have now come to under\u00adstand about your\u00adself. Share your new under\u00adstand\u00ading of your\u00adself and cre\u00adate a new space for you both to move into.<\/p>\n
Remem\u00adber in any rela\u00adtion\u00adship you are deal\u00ading with \u201cThree\u201d; there is \u201cI\u201d, there is \u201cYou\u201d, and then there is the third there between you both, \u201cWe\u201d. This third part must be pro\u00adtect\u00aded, nur\u00adtured and devel\u00adop as you grow. Through greater under\u00adstand\u00ading and accep\u00adtance of each oth\u00ader you release one anoth\u00ader to cre\u00adate a new space for that \u201cwe\u201d. Then, and only then, can you come togeth\u00ader con\u00adscious\u00adly, agree\u00ading to be bound to one anoth\u00ader in mutu\u00adal under\u00adstand\u00ading, trust and love. Your rela\u00adtion\u00adship can, nay must grow again; it must be the place to be more of what you each are than any\u00adwhere else, for that is true love.<\/p>\n
So, on this day of reck\u00adon\u00ading, in this moment of rev\u00ade\u00adla\u00adtion, turn and look with\u00adin your\u00adself and re-con\u00adnect to the foun\u00adtain-source of under\u00adstand\u00ading, the source of true love, your soul.<\/p>\n
Now turn and look upon your beloved and say those mag\u00adi\u00adcal words, \u201cI love you\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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