No doubt about it, this one is going to hurt. It\u2019s the \u201cbeau\u00adty meets the beast\u201d time again. When\u00adev\u00ader Venus has a \u201chard\u201d encounter with Sat\u00adurn, you def\u00adi\u00adnite\u00adly feel less val\u00adued; you feel the lack of love. There is prob\u00ada\u00adbly some prob\u00adlem that has come to a head in a rela\u00adtion\u00adship; there is a choice to be made that will change it (or end it). But, of course, the real chal\u00adlenge lies with\u00adin you; with your val\u00adues and self-worth. It real\u00adly is all about your love of self.<\/p>\n
Venus has been in Can\u00adcer since July 4; bathing in the waters of fam\u00adi\u00adly, nur\u00adtur\u00ading and doing what feels<\/em> <\/strong>right. Sat\u00adurn throws down the chal\u00adlenge from Libra; you just can\u00adnot do what feels right to you with\u00adout (equal\u00adly) tak\u00ading the oth\u00ader into con\u00adsid\u00ader\u00ada\u00adtion. Yes, you should fol\u00adlow your feel\u00adings, but you have to be guid\u00aded by prin\u00adci\u00adples of fair\u00adness and reci\u00adprocity too.<\/p>\n So the prob\u00adlem will appear as if some\u00adone is being too self\u00adish; they are clam\u00ador\u00ading for and get\u00adting their needs met while not acknowl\u00adedg\u00ading the legit\u00adi\u00admate needs of the oth\u00ader. Or some\u00adone is just being too rigid about main\u00adtain\u00ading \u201cthe bal\u00adance\u201d in the rela\u00adtion\u00adship; they are not being respon\u00adsive enough (spon\u00adta\u00adneous) when the sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion requires that.<\/p>\n It comes down to a seem\u00ading strug\u00adgle between emo\u00adtion and rea\u00adson, feel\u00adings and prin\u00adci\u00adples, and nei\u00adther side is going to be hap\u00adpy, and, of course, both are right! So what do you do? The strug\u00adgle and answer, of course, is with\u00adin you. You must strike the right bal\u00adance, a dynam\u00adic ever-adjust\u00ading bal\u00adance, between your caring\/cared for self and your principled\/reasoning self. The prob\u00adlem appears \u201cout there\u201d (and it is<\/em> there in them<\/em>, most cer\u00adtain\u00adly), but it is out there so you can face it with\u00adin yourself.<\/p>\n The les\u00adson comes from Sat\u00adurn, he is the shaper here, and so Venus must let go of that less\u00ader, pos\u00adses\u00adsive, demand\u00ading and need\u00ading way of lov\u00ading so that it can evolve into its truer, high\u00ader expres\u00adsion. If you stay too attached to your famil\u00adiar<\/em> <\/strong>ways you will not be able to love your\u00adself or anoth\u00ader as you must\u2026uncon\u00addi\u00adtion\u00adal\u00adly<\/strong>. For that is the only way you can cre\u00adate the con\u00addi\u00adtions for true love; because then you will con\u00adsid\u00ader and treat your\u00adself equal\u00adly as you do the oth\u00ader, (because you under\u00adstand \u201cthe mys\u00adtery<\/em>\u201d, that in the oth\u00ader I meet myself). And you will like\u00adwise cre\u00adate the con\u00addi\u00adtions for the oth\u00ader to return the same uncon\u00addi\u00adtion\u00adal love to you. <\/p>\n The answer, as always, is to look with\u00adin, to your soul and heart and see the won\u00adder there\u2026It is your shin\u00ading, star\u00adborn self, who is love, and is the guar\u00adan\u00adtor of your ever\u00adlast\u00ading, unfold\u00ading val\u00adue in this universe.<\/p>\n And, you are nev\u00ader alone. You are accom\u00adpa\u00adnied on this jour\u00adney of self-real\u00adiza\u00adtion through rela\u00adtion\u00adship by a great host of shin\u00ading ones who seek as do you the answer to that ques\u00adtion, \u201cDo you love me?\u201d<\/p>\n In your heart you will find your answer, and so speak the words of under\u00adstand\u00ading: \u201cI am that, I am.\u201d (I and thou, we are one).<\/p>\n Love your\u00adself, love anoth\u00ader. 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